I had always thought 'That does Love affect friendship?' I never thought and believed in it, but its most often with time we learn things. As time is the best teacher, and it gives you the best experience, which is the best lesson. so I'm writing this blog.
Its true that Love is great, but how can love be great if it hampers another relation like friendship. For instance, If two people are great friends,they do things together, always accompany each other, share things with each other. But one day, one of them falls in love with someone else, obviously she will discuss all this with her friend. Then the love deepens, and moves ahead, with passing time.
She tells his friend , everything about her love. Her friend might feel that,she now a days just talk endlessly about him. She is moving away, somewhere their friendship seems tested. But the friend is happy for her, after all she has met her love of life.
The friend isn't jealous, but she has moved a bit away. She no more replies Sms's consistently. Her phone is often busy, as she talks with her love. And she never makes a point to get back to her friend.
Most importantly, the friend is hurt because now, she accompanies him sometimes. Before the love chapter, she always accompanied the friend. So the friend is alone at times. Wherever she goes, her love is there. And when he isn't there, the friend is there to accompany her.
So their friendship bond is shaken, loosen, not on purpose. Friend is walking the same path But someone else has moved on to the other side of path, with love, enjoying the edge thus widening the gap of friendship.
So when love comes in from the door, friendship moves out from the window.A bitter truth.
Its not a necessary scenario, but happens the most.
"Slowly, slowly, she forgets talking to her friends,
And when she sees her love,she tends to forget her friends"
Friendship is also a friendly love, but in search of dream mate,friendship takes a back seat.
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