At times we are confused in life about certain personnel issues, most often we cant decide whether the bag i seen at Bandra is much more worth that seen at Colaba. We cant decide if the funky tee will suit me better then the classic white. Is it right to give importance to the guy next door? should i give this guy online my number? Is it fine to go on a date so soon????????????
and many such questions, where we spend time just racking our brain and scratching our heart.Isnt it so funny, we are confused about ourselves, if we cant know and understand ourselves better, then how can we expect fo others to understand us?
But, there is always a person who knows us better then we know ourselves. Someone who understand your feelings before you know whats the feeling. Someone on whom you can rely anytime. If you're lonely you can give a call at late nite without a moment of hesitation. Most often the person knows what we have to speak just by seeing our facial expressions OR hearing our voice.
Who is this person and how do he/she understands me so well?
Very simple this person can be your best friend, spouse, sister or a long lost friend. And this person knows you so well all because there were memorable moments spent together. These moments are not just sweet but bitter fights too. Which makes this relation a much more strong bond, because this special person has seen you in your best and worst times.
Very often, such relations are formed in childhood friendships. Where you grow together, care together, fight together, ignore each other, then crave to talk to each other, also make reasons to come together and finally you are one again, because you never parted ways by heart, that was just a temporary wound. And with time it gets healed bettter and better.
So look at your side, and treasure this person. This is the only person, who is at your side when you're in a problem, this is the person whom you like to share everything first, when your sad this is the only person who cheers you up and stands by you all by an unconditional bond. This is the only person who accompanies you when you have no one to go with.
Its that special friend who tolerates your worst mood,manages to smile on your idiotic jokes, tries to understand your craziest dreams and knows the biggest reason behind your smallest tear.
Very few relations are unconditional and so pure. This is one such relation.Take care to make each moment memorable than the other.
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