Falling in love first time is obviously the best thing to happen in our lives. But, do we fall in love again and again?
We come across many people in our daily life. Among them, few touch our hearts, and within them with whom our compatibility matches the best, we consider it Love.
Is it so simple to be in love or rather we decide this phenomena as Love? The answer is with you. We meet certain people in our life and so do we love them. But what happens when one of the relation break's? if the relation break, then it was never love.......... just an accident of attraction. Most often we confuse love with attraction. We might like a T-shirt in a shop window, you might look at it everyday with a hope of wearing it and finally one day you buy it. After that you wear it for few days, flaunt with it and finally you're bored with it. Then you might find some day something better else. So is it at times with human relations, or rather urban human relations.. At times, we get bored or fed up with people and decide to break it and get over such love. Well , then where is love in it? It is just a matter of attraction. So we decide to move over it and find another attracting destination (Love as what some people think it)
So Love happens once, the rest is just life.
But is it that Love that happens first is the true one?
Most people believe that first love is the true love. Isn't the repeatedly falling in love phenomena nonsensical?
Falling in love.......... into a magical world. We may fall once or twice and then we get up, do we remain fallen where we are, or do we keep on falling?
Keeping humor aside, if we look into our lives, we always remember our first love not because it was perfect in fact it was strange in all aspects.
The first time we fall in love, we are often in the teenage group. Where love and fantasy dominates our life. Its also the age of innocence and sweetness. We have barely seen the world and we hardly know people at this age. Our thoughts about love are occupied by the classic fables and romantic films, in which two opposite worlds meet, fall in love and eventually have a larger than life ending. So our innocent heart falls for a person, who might be completely opposite . But the sight of love put you in hours of thinking about it. Many people might warn you, that you deserve better, but you're blindly in love and cant see anything else except love. This is often a pure love and an unconditional one, but often doesn't work out. One day everything collapses and still you aren't ready to accept the torn apart heart. By the time you realize this , you become silent. What one goes through is an intense phase of zero sight, like gazing at the sky for wee hours and listening endlessly to the sound of waves.
This first love is special because it was true, loved out of innocence and pure heart. And since it was the first time, the feelings are much more intense and strong.
With time tear's are wiped out but the scars remain and passing time makes you tougher.
Yet the life journey continues............................until you meet someone meant for you, when life seems beautiful once again.
In the mean time people come and go, where our heart is like the sand, and people like the sea waves. The waves come and go only the special ones leave their mark on sand.Like a special wave which brings a gem on the sand.
So your first love is true and special but not the ultimate.
It is just the begining..........................
After a long time, when you look back at your first love, you might laugh at yourself........................... but still that person remains special.
After all it is the LOVE OUT OF INNOCENCE
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