LOVE AND SACRIFICE

When it comes to Love................. there are other elements which follow it. These are compromises, Sacrifices, Adjustment, to keep the relationship alive. Two people are never the same in their thought patterns, nor in their behaviour. But when a problem arises, how do they solve it.
Love....... isn't so easy, it test you time and time again to realize it's worth and wonder if one deserves it.
Today in these complicated relationships, one even finds it difficult to answer his/her relationship status.
Whether they are attracted to some one, or they like someone, or may be they are in love, or many be they have just realized their differences, or may be there are misunderstandings, or may be they just want to mutually apart, Or is it that the 'Ex' is back in life again, may be they are double dating, what if its multi-dating?
Such a Confusion!!!!!!!
However, in a relationship 'who is the one who makes most sacrifice?' Most often we believe it's the girl who makes most adjustments but after marriage the boy sacrifices most, being a hubby.
Love and the sacrifices can never be judged on gender basis, Because love is universal in itself.
However, in this present era, Love is nothing more then a need or want to escape from Loneliness. Love is selfless, but now its selfish.
And when people are so selfish, who will sacrifice then?
Some time back, when relationships and Love wasn't so open and publicized. People were happy with their love not because they got what they aspired for but they accepted their love with full grace and made it their love of life, by being selfless. Even if a sacrifice was made by anyone of the partner it was made out of love for love, so in no way seemed like a sacrifice.Love wasn't a market place that time, which is today when it comes to streets of cosmopolitan cities.
But today, when it comes to adjustment........... may be the girl will do a few or the guy...... but after a point they wonder why do I need to always 'Compromise?'
This is the 'Point of EDGES'..........
Soon after things fall apart, lovers fight, then ignore each other and finally they stop communicating leaving love halfway at an unknown directionless path.
One has to make compromise as well adjust to make the relationships cart move swiftly, but it isn't about one wheel, its both of the wheels that makes the cart runs. Similarly, how long can only one adjust even the other has to help, compromise and adjust out of Love for Love.