Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Moments of love and life,


The moment that stands still,
The moment that stands still,

The way you looked at me,
Other than you Nothing else could I see,
The way conversations moved on,
seemed to be a connection of eons.

The way you hugged ,
has intoxicated and I'm drugged.
The intensity in your eyes to meet,
is like the wait for Christmas treat.

The moments I have been with you,
Life felt to be alive and new,
Love creeped in without realizing,
Ego walked out without knowing.

Utter wrong things seemed correct,
love is all over to attract.
Without you being around,
in all my thoughts you are bound.

To me nothing is changed,
you resisting now is strange.
Love never expects,
its an intense respect,
Even though you resist.

Whatever way you try to behave,
For you, My heart will always crave,
Im walking the path of Love,
And will continue to do so.


With you,
Life is beautiful,
World is amazing
And everything is beautiful.
Without you I'm nothing,
You're my life, My world, and everything.

Thursday, September 30, 2010

TWO DAYS OF FRIENDSHIP AND A DAY OF LOVE





At the first day,
He was as shining as the sun in may.
He looked so innocent,
Like the sweet shining moon in crescent,
Initially, He spoke nothing,
With time he said everything.
He seemed sweet and humble,
That what made the emotions, jumble.
They spoke for hours together,
And nothing to bother.
A day latter,
They meet for coffee,
Which become a conversational toffee.
However it didn't seem enough,
So moved for dinner for more,
The more it gets merrier.
And leaves them by heart richer.
Time to get back home,
Although there is some,
yet crave for more.
The light of Moon,
Is shining emotions bright
They meet again,
Although an hour later it began,
Endless conversations,
And much more attraction.
They seen a play “The Guy Thing”
So emotions in heart started to ring.
Some where later,
On the way to dinner for better,
He puts it ear phones,
And hurts his friends Emotions to cone.
‘How can you get bored so soon with me?’
‘It is nothing like that you see.’
‘I’m removing out,
So you don’t need to shout.’
Sweet as wine,
They both dine.
Moments reveal,
Being jovial,
The eyes look in to eyes,
One shies,
And other admiringly cries.
But something is noticed in this eyes,
That there are a few lies.
Then Romance becomes silent,
Is it something to frighten!
The dinner is done,
And they both turn,
To walk down the lane,
Which is moon lit sane.
Some emotions are out,
On a one side there is drought,
Filled with crowd
On the other there is greenery,
Filled with solitude in scenery.
One can’t leave his crowd,
The other one can’t leave his solitude.
All they need is love.
But the problem is what love is in this age!
Is it a wonderful bird as possession in a cage?
Or is it a free bird, flying against hard hitting wind?
Two days of friendship,
A day of love,
Moments of despair,
Thoughts and memoirs,
Ask me ??????????????
Innumerable questions.
Why he didn’t turn back? Why was it so hard to come out of his arms? Why I thought, he would message me? And why did I still think of him so much?

Thursday, June 17, 2010

RAAVAN- artistically shot and executed with magical music


Raavan- Directed by Mani Ratnam, is the most aesthetically film made till date. And this might put the commercial audience's faces frown.
Raavan is quite a short film of 2 hours and 10 mins, yet it seems long and twisted.
in the first half of the film, the story doesn't really move further, yet the exotic scenes keep you engaged through out.
And in the second part, one wants to see, if the film is set into real story, yet the film moves slow with some kicks and fights here and there. However the whole story sums up into the last 25 minutes of the film. these last 25 minutes has so much been put in to it, that if one see's these 25 minutes, then one has seen the complete Raavan, except for the aesthetic part of the film.
Though the film is slow, its a pie tart for the art lovers. Since Santosh Sivan's Photography is not just exotic, but totally mind blowing. The background score is very fresh and engaging. Aishwariya is very beautiful, and one wants to see more of her as Ragini. Sanyasachi's Costumes has given the character, the exact look.
A.R Rehmans music is no wonder magical, its lounge as well as foot tapping.
Behne de, and Ranjha sets you in fantasy, at the same time Thok de killi, sets your spirits high.
However Khili Re, was not required in the film.
The slow motion sequences are simply well done.
Ravaan still scores 3 and half stores from my side.
All for Santosh Sivans Photography, Aishwariya's beauty, Background score and A.R Rehmans music.
Only, one big flaw, is that the last minute of the film.The climax could have been better, watch it to know it.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

THE LAST SONG........Well Scripted and Photographed


THE LAST SONG

It’s a recent trend that every week at least one English film releases in Mumbai, and often this films are already been released in other nations, at times a month ago and even a year ago. But what makes these films special is their script. The Last Song is one such Beautiful Rom-Dramatic film.

The last Song is based on the Nicholas Sparks novel of the same name. Miley Cyrus of Hanna Montana fame plays the central character of Ronnie Miller. She dislikes her father, because of their divorce, and her father had left them three years back, immediately after the divorce.
Ronnie fails to understand the circumstances and prejudices her father. Her father Greg Kinnear stays on a small Tybee on Georgia beach, working over a stained glass window.
The mother leaves the kids, Ronnie and her younger brother for vacation, with their Dad.
Ronnie hasn’t spoken to her father the day he left, and still hates him, but cant event completely ignore it too. Since both of them are under the same roof now.
As a child Ronnie loved piano, and played it very well. She had learnt this instrument from her dad. But due to her father’s ugly divorce, she never again touched the piano yet.
Over there she immerses herself in protecting a Loggerhead Sea turtle nest, where she comes across Liam Hemsworth, who also indulges in this cause.
With in the passing of time, they both come closer until they realize their love for each other. Love also calms Ronnies aggression for her father, and she does come closer to him too.
Love brings her back, to finally play the instrument and share a good bond with her dad. The screenplay is musical and set among romantic locations. Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth chemistry is good on the screen , as both play their roles up to the mark.
Liam Hemsworth is young hot lad in the film. Especially, the starting scene where he is just with low waist red shorts, making an eye candy.
Very late, Ronnie discovers about her fathers cancer, which he ha hid from all. From this moment on, Ronnie loves her dad much more, and also she realizes the wrong notions about her dad. At this crucial moment Liam and Miley break up for a misunderstanding.
Ronnie spends more time with her and eventually starts admiring, understanding and above all loving him.
When her mother comes to take her, she refuses to leave her father in sick condition. The Last song is the Song Miley’s dad was writing for her, but couldn’t conclude it due to extreme weakness. At this moment, Ronnie continues the song on, and plays on the piano.
The Last Song, is actually the accomplishment of the fathers journey, meeting of hearts, Love, Forgiveness and an invisible bond.



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Sunday, April 25, 2010

Thinking to fall in Love..........


When you know its not love, but it is something close to love.
That's a new phenomena, and most often evolved or ambitious people go through it.
It happens when you like someone, and decide to get committed to that person. You already know, that you don't love the person, yet you are aware that you can make things happen, and love will set in.
But does that always happen? Or does it even happen?
The opposite person, may be really nice to you. You like being with that person, and spending time together. But then though you spend time together, you don't always look forward for the meeting with excitement and new joy everyday.
Love is when, you're meeting the same person everyday, but every time there's a new excitement in meeting. Also, the topics of discussion, might be still the same, but every time you hear something new, this is when you're in love.
You like a person, but then it is your mind adjusting with it, and believing to be in Love. If love had to happen, then your heart would have already recognized the person, and you would have automatically fallen in love.
One doesn't need to think to fall in love, no body thinks about falling, but all of us accidentally fall at some or the other point of time in our life.

Though, Love is been often glorified in films and books. Its beauty is so amazing that one would not fail to recognize its love.

One doesn't need to use the mind to be in love, Love is effortless.

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Drinking Coffee in Plastic cups at CCday


Whenever you're meeting your friend after a long time, or you just want to make your mood better, its often we end up going to Cafe coffee day.

I remember the last time i went before yesterday was just the last week. And always loved the mocha Delight, The dipped in Muffin, with spilling Chocolate Sauce and exotic taste ov Vanilla ice cream. Also the amazing touch of blue to the oatmeal, lattee. It all tasted so much good, especially when you look at it in the beautiful long glasses, and amazing mugs. Some crystal clean, some milky white. Indeed a lot can happen over a coffee.

But what happens when you want to make yourself feel better, and want to catch up with a friend at CCDay, and as usual order your favourite Cold Coffee, or Muffin, and they come with this Use and throw cups, plastic glasses, and paper plates.

All you do is stare at it, and wonder, Did I order this? And after careful observation you realize its your favourite drink but not anymore. I even dont think one would spend money from your wallet for your favourite coffee, frappe in a plastic glass (Atleast not me)

At the same time CCDay, had followed the earth hour, this month. I remember I was there at that evening and the candle night coffee has become an unforgetabble memory for me.

Its presenatation that matters. But not A birthay party snacks that amount for waste of plastic and paper.Also a huge amount of waste will be accumulated due to this so unclassy act. Image so many CCDay's and such a huge group of youngsters contributing to the waste for this city to handle. Even if they are recycled, it doesnt makes any difference. Imagine drinking your Favourite Coffee, with the swirl design or concentric shape design chocolate in a RECYCLED PLASTIC CUP/ GLASS. Why cant we return to those glasses and crockery again. Also its a good way for CCDay to cut out the Labour cost and salaries for employees engaged in cleaning this chatty.

CCDay is such a big chain, but they need to change to such frivilous Act to cut down labour cost or whatever they thought before implementing this change. I loved CCDay (ESpecially the small simple one on Caddel Road, Mahim) once upon a time, but not anymore.

So its bid farewell for CCDay from my side unless they restore it to the glasses and amazing crockery, which is presentable and makes me feel pleasant.

Monday, April 5, 2010

Pankh------- contemporary art on Silver Screen


Pankh- From Sanjay Gupta's Art House, is an amazing piece of contemporary art. Pankh is about Rebello who suffers from identity crisis as being playing the girl child character in bollywood industry. When he grows up, he finds it difficult to know himself and goes through identity crisis. Being teased by children from school, he could never finish his education. overall brought up in a family, where not a day was passed without fights or badwords. Lillete Dubey has justified her character with her charm and efforts. Rebello, is always left alone, and couldnt really mix with others. There he immerses himself into Drinking, Smoking and even doping.
And all that comes to his company, is his imagination Bipasaha.
Bipasha, is his fascination Nandini. But her existence, identity, is all a mystery. Bipasha's role is to help Rebello, to come out of his obstacles, face them with courage and inspire him. But does Rebello always listen to her?
Also when people discover, that Rebello, who want's to become an actor today, had played Baby Kusum in early age. The Girl who became instantly famous, wasn't a girl, but a guy, who is the reality Rebello today.
Rebello's fight for identity, affection from a childhood friend Salim, Craving for Motherly love, The mystery of Bipasha (Nandini) is Pankh.
Rebello's fight for survival and fly in the sky................. is Pankh.
What makes Pankh................... a great film is not a thing, but everthing about it.
The Cinematography is excellent, with artistic camera angles ans neon as well dark shades of light.
Lillete's acting is brave and realistic.
Background score as well the music is echoing.......... and you will yeearn for more of it.
Bipasha has got about seven to eight avatars, which are larger than life. She is stunning, vivacious and a diva. If i compare her whole life career, she has never been so stunning ever before. One would always want to see more of her on the screen.
Dialogues are very bold, realistic as well Bipasaha's lines are poetic, and imaginitive.
The film is short and very well shot. The Climax is artistically done, with a plethora of emotions, which makes it an edge of the seat performance.
The film is dark, brave............ and meant for people who like the cinema to be very different and have the capability to digest such a film.
My verdict is 4 stars.

Friday, April 2, 2010

Well Done Abba.................. A Must Watch


As there wasn’t real good publicity of this film, that could reveal its concept, One is blank while seeing the movie, and end up coming out from the theatre happy and delighted. Veteran Director, Shyam Benegal deserves a salute after Welcome to Sajjanpur, for making such films. Benegal has his own way of telling different but real stories with a touch of humour. Benegals films are always social issue based, but the way he puts it, is truly commendable.
Well Done Abba, is a story of Corruption in Indian Government, and how its killing the democracy in India. Booman Irani is a Driver in Mumbai, and is on one month leave, to fix his daughter, Minisha lamba’s Wedding in his village Chikatpally in Andhra Pradesh. There is sever water shortage in the village like many other villages of India, and how people are facing the crisis, is their story. This is Minisha Lamba’s best performance, so far. A role that many other actress would want to do. I’m not disclosing the secret of the films story, watch it to be on a funny ride. Shantanu Moitra’s music is indeed different as always. Its not the usual pop or bollywood, but a folk kind of music, that will surely make you fall in love with the lyrics as well. Ravi Kishen, Sonali Kulkarni have also given good shots. Ila Arun, is one whose entry on to screen every time, creates anticipation, for another rib tickling scene. A film is, well directed, scripted, enacted, good music, and finally a film thats different but will surely make you think as well make you laugh at the same time.
My verdict 4 stars

Alice In The Wonderland


We all have heard the Alice from Wonderland story in our childhood. But to this film there is a contemporary touch. Alice is been asked by a guy in front of the fraternity, but she isn’t sure about him. From childhood, she is been dreaming of Rabbits in Waist coats, Talking dogs, Blue Caterpillar, etc . Alice falls into the rabbit hole, and then there is a new land, what she calls it as Wonderland. The Wonderland in this film, is truly magnificent, A spectacular display of vivid imagination. Here the confusion is that the creatures, are unsure if this is the real Alice, for they have been waiting for years. According to the oracle, Alice will save the creatures of Wonderland, from the anarchy of Red Big Head Queen. Johhny Depp, is amazing in his hatter avatar, and has got stunning accent. Annie Hathway, plays the White Queen, who is so subtle, beautiful and white. Alice in Wonderland has got Stunning Sets, amazing Costumes, Loud Creative Makeup, and a wonderland to discover the child in you.
The film has got indeed good 3D. A worth watch in Imax.
My Verdict 3 stars.

The Great Indian Butterfly............ could have been better


The Great Indian Butterfly, the film for which i was waiting for past one year to release. Sarthak Dasguptas Directorial Debut and White Feather Films, Art Productions First film, is a story of a couple, who are on an exploration for a mythical butterfly, which could bring love, peace, luck and happiness. From the Urbanised Mumbai begins the journey of this couple, into the beauty of the Sahyadris. The film, moves on with just the journey of Amir Bashir and Sandhya Mridul. in this journey, rather then finding love all that they discover is differences, and misunderstanding. Sandhya, has given one of her best performances so far. She has got a very got dialogue delivery and realistic emotions. the Background score of the film is different and something that will definitely soothe your ears. Shibani Kashyap's Song "Thodi Thodi Sanjh" is extremely beautiful.
The question is "Is happiness, a Rare Insect or is it not real? Although the film is of 1 hour 40 minutes, yet the Climax is hurried. The climax is done well, but could have been extended. Also the songs in film are beautiful, yet are not fully picturised.
The Great Indian Butterfly is no wonder good film, but could have been great, if the story was well told.
My verdict 2.5 stars.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

THE LOVELY BONES- Visually stunning Film


The Lovely Bones Directed by Peter Jackson, is indeed a story well told from the eyes of a girl of Fourteen years old. The film begins with the narration of Saoirse Ronan, as being in the spirit world and was once upon earth with her loving parents and picyure perfect family. However, her ill fate bounced upon her by raping and then being murdered by a silent neighbour(killer)Stanley Tucci.
Stanley Tucci is a divorcee and stays alone, however is weird, all by himself and has murdered about five girls earlier, with no trace or evidence. Saoirse is 14 years old and would love to be a wildlife photographer. She finds Reece, who she likes and they both are attracted to each other. They haven't yet spent real time with each other, yet its a pure innocent Love. Once when Saoirse is returning back from school, she is raped and murdered by the killer. What then follows is Saoirse's soul wandering between earth and heaven. She is caught up into a mystical realm, Where she meets another soul Holly. Holly ask her to move on, and no to be bound by the earthly dimension. However, Saoirse cannot escape the ties of her family, and their love. There is a beautiful line said by her "A murderer can never know how much a father loves his child"
The background score of the film is soothing and echoes in your ears after leaving the theatre. Another dimension, is well picturised and the scenes are breath taking. One would just admire the beauty of them. Tucci then plots for Saoirse's Sister Lindsay. Saoirse is yet stuck up in the between realm , and yearns to go back to family. When she tries to connect with her family what follows is a series of mystical, and sometimes tragic events.
The film is intriguing, and a story well narrated with poetic lines. A must watch on the list.
My Verdict 3 stars.

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Rural & Urban comparison of Social Life



For a city dweller, Village life might be boring and slow. However, harmony of nature makes it special and serene. in city, we are busy machines and have no time to stand and look at the sun, we never get to see the rising sun or just the setting sun. Due to light pollution, stars are not visible, and the sky seems never romantic or starry.

I felt like going to my native place Ratnagiri, in beautiful Konkan to get a break as well observe the rituals that bound holi festival.

Things are not just different here but are indeed very different. People are informal in their behaviour and are closely connected in a simple web of social relations.
Let us not be mistaken that “villagers are illiterate, lack intelligence, unaware of technology, and ill mannered”
What I have observed is, “they are often literate, aware of all the modern technologies, very well mannered and cultured as well constructive”

Villagers know how to make the proper uses of available resources.
People here are constructive in their thoughts and often discuss ideas and future prospects especially the oldies.
‘We might say that fruits should be free from sprays and chemicals, but here even mango trees are addicted to the chemicals and cant grow properly without them’

My Grandpa says “There were so many birds and animals here, but due to increased urbanization- all have disappeared” ‘There was a time when peacock, rabbits, boars, mongoose, etc were a common sight and now they can’t be even spotted once’
People talk in terms of units, which we might have forgotten. We can say, Thane is an hour away and Bandra is 15mins away. But people in villages speak in terms of Km’s, Miles and even Nautical Miles. I wonder how many in Mumbai know Nautical miles!

Villagers also know about new projects undertaken and others scheduled to start. We hardly are aware of how many sky walks and flyovers are built or being built.

Most importantly, guest are always welcome. They are not just welcome, but are often served with food, and at times even forced for lunch or dinner. And we in our city, ask so artificially, ‘Would you like to have something?’ Obviously our intention behind it is so clear!

If I talk about studies, then parents are much more serious about their children, studies and their future. They are serious, sweet as well strict with their kids. Not chilled out parents, like many of urbanized parents, who in the name of liberty are so liberal that they even bear the insult from their kids. Due to financial crisis, not many students in village end up going to college. So even the facilities in colleges are nothing compared to our urban colleges.

From this all we can infer that villagers (esp in Konkan) are not lacking behind, as we often think of them to be. Their thoughts are enormous and varied. They discuss biodiversity, unemployment, Technology, Politics, etc. Which I guess we never discuss among our friends, colleagues or relatives. We can’t say that these are not our issues, or who has got time to talk about all this? Well we can gossip, talk about films, celebrities, sports, fashion, etc. Then why can’t we talk about issues which are more serious and should be looked upon!

Konkan, and im very sure, the whole country side is indeed beautiful. Its funny to us when we see foreigners in Mumbai clicking pictures of Crowded trains, slums, architectural sites, etc. All this because its new and amazing to them. Similarly, I was clicking pictures of lakes, birds, mountains, creek, the roads, which was funny to them. This is because they go through it everyday, and nothing different to them. But to me it’s a canvas painted by the mythical nature.
Some places are very beautiful and diverse, as well isolated. Like the lake I seen today. One could easily enter into meditative state, paint or even compose a song effortlessly sitting beside the lake.

Ohhhhhh!!!!!!! Something I forgot to mention earlier is the ‘ food’. May be I’m not really foody, so forgot to write about it initially.
We believe that if we eat lot of food then we become obese and rice surely brings the pouch out. I guess that’s not true. The plate that they serve here once can be easily finished by us in about two more meals. Hardly, 5 to 7 % of people are obese, rest all are fit and slim,. They even hardly travel, not like us from town to suburbs, again and again.
Yet they are slim. The mystery is about the quality of food, which is so nutritious and the amount of walk. Like fetching water from the well downhill, often walking rather than using a bike and saving fuel, going to temple walking, gathering firewood for cooking (even if cylinder is there), scarring the monkeys when they come to spoil the fruits, as well scarring the cattle entering ten times a day, for grazing. So you see though they travel less, their daily work is a rigorous exercise in itself. Not like us sitting in one place and ordering food, movie tickets, vegetables, flour and necessity items, coffee,etc on a phone and sitting whole day in the arm chair.

If there was something I missed then it were my family, friends, and my computer rather Internet.i also loved the rituals for Holi,

GIve Love , Get Love


GIVE LOVE, GET LOVE
By Omkar Bhatkar

For a long time I just wondered how to put love in words. I could not understand, for love is something which cannot be described. It is a passion that runs within you. It is a unique feeling that makes you feel happy without even a reason for it. It is the entire universe that is compressed within you. When all the things go wrong yet you struggle to win such is the power of love.
Love is something
That makes you laugh,
It makes you sing,
It makes you sad,
It makes you cry,
It makes you seek,
The reason why,
It makes us give,
And it makes us take.
Above all love makes us live.
So Love that emotion which makes you alive. It is the very essence of living.
But what is the purpose of Love?
Love in itself is the end not the means to something. A purpose is always related to something that has an end. The purpose of cooking is to eat. A tree blossom, what is the purpose?
Love itself is the end. Love is eternal, ever running, ever flowing, and ever shining. The purpose of everything that exists on this planet is being of love. The plants, animals, birds, all creatures big and small live to love.
Love is that as it compasses the whole universe. Then where is this love today? Why are we fighting? Why are we envious? Why are we jealous of our neighbours? Why do we hate each other? Why are we lonely? Why are we unhappy? Why, why, and Why………………………………
There are times when we long to be to the use of someone whom we love too much, but we can do nothing. Circumstances will not let us close to them, or even arouse any kind of support.
Then all we have remaining with us is the abundance of love. At such times, when the situation is out of our reach and we seem to give up, yet there is the beautiful gift Pandora gave us. The “hope”. And we can still love without expecting any reward or gratitude.
If we do this innocently, Then the energy of love will begin to transform the universe within and with around us. Wherever the energy moves it creates all that it requires, creating a creative aura of happiness.
“Time does not transform man, Will power does not transform man, Love transforms” says Henry Drummond.
I read this article sometime back in the tabloid and was touched by it.
In order to renovate the house, someone in Japan tears open the wall.
Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls. When tearing down the walls, he found there was a lizard stuck there because a nail from outside into one of its feet. He sees this, feels pity and at the same tine curious, as when he checked the nail, it wsa nailed ten years ago when the house was first built.
What happened?
The lizard had survived in such a position for ten years! In a dark wall partition for ten years without moving, it is impossible and mind boggling.
Then he wondered how this Lizard survived for 10 years without moving a single step since its food was nailed!
So he stopped his work and observed the lizard, what it has been doing and what and how it has been eating. Later, not knowing from where it came appears another lizard, with food in its mouth.
Ahh! He was stunned and touched deeply. For the lizard that was stuck by nail, another lizard has been feeding it for the pass ten years…………..
Such love, such a beautiful love! Such love happened even with this tiny creature …... What can love do? It can do wonders! Imagine? It has been doing that untiringly for ten years, without giving up hope.
Imagine what a small creature can do that a creature blessed with a brilliant mind can’t.
I was touched when I read this story and started wondering about relationships between family members, Friends, Lovers, Brothers, Sisters………..
Love is a Gift, take it, let it grow.
Love is a sign we should wear, let it show.
Love is an act, do it, let it go.
So Love cures, transforms and creates magic. Love is that complex feeling which deep down is only reason we continue to live, struggle and improve.
Our family, our neighbours, our friends, our city, our nation and the world today needs love.
We have been moving towards destruction. Broken homes, Neighbours fights, friends jealousy, intolerant city, and terrorism in countries? Where are we heading, we are all moving towards our own death. Nothing can save us except for Love. Now that we have realized how important is love! It needs to be shared in our life.

Life and death, Youth and age, Joy and sorrow, Rise and fall, is in the law of god. Everything we see around us is a sermon of a new beginning and an end.
The poet Robert Herrick in one of the moment seeing the daffodils lamented;
Fair daffodils we weep to see,
You haste away so soon;
As yet the early rising sun
Has not attained the noon.
Stay, Stay
Until the hasting day
Has run
But due to the even-song!
And, having prayed together, We
Will go with you along.
We have short time to stay as you,
We have as short as spring,
As quick a breath to meet decay.
As you, or anything
We die.
As your hours do, and dry
Away
Like to the summers rain,
Or as the pearls of morning dew.
Never to be found again.
If you look back you will see and agree how soon the time has passed way. Every minute, every hour, every day, month and year, we are in a process of dying.
In the midst of life we are in death and in the midst of death we are in life. And everyday brings this hard fact before us. Each day brings us a step forward to our grave. Very soon, we shall wither away and die so let us give love, be open to love , receive love and be full of love.
After all love is something if you give it away you will end up having much more.
Speak gently with love with your family, Respect your elders with love, Bear the youngster’s tantrums by giving them love and surely love will workout everything. Your neighbours may be jealous and always fighting but even if you are the same to them, then what’s the difference between you and them? Show your love and concern for them and love shall move its magic wand.
Sometimes we fight with our friends and at times we even hate them. But why do we hate the? Just because they did something against our will. So what? Friendship isn’t being with someone who does whatever you like but rather accepting then foe whatever they are. A faithful friend is something beyond price there is no measuring his worth. So value your Friend.
Why does u think someone on the street is strange? Why do you think that unknown person is different? Is it all because you are in no relation to them?
But each and every human being is a creation of Almighty. So you are a big family, then hoe can you hate your family member?
While crossing the road you see an old man scared to cross the road, but you are ill bothered. After all he is not your grandpa! In a crowded bus, a seat gets empty and you just want to seat there before the lady behind you takes that seat. All because she is stranger and not your mother! A girl has lost her purse ands has no money to return home, you wouldn’t be bothered because she is not your sister.
Where is our humanity gone?
That old man is someone’s grandpa, the lady in the bus could be someone else’s mother and the girl could be someone’s sister.
Do you want even your closed ones to go through the same?
Be in love and then you will see each person on the street is your family.
Terrorism! Why do some people become terrorist? Why they kill the innocents? They kill innocent people so we condemn them. Then they take much more other lives and we then take the lives of these terrorist. They kill, we kill, they kill, we kill……………… where will it end? Will it always continue like this?
Those who profuse fanaticism, do not need condemnation but compassion. We have to educate people in the human values of friendship, compassion, cooperation, a sense of belonging and spirituality. We need to be compassionate towards terrorist, they are completely mistaken- they are mistaken because or wrong upbringing and wrong understanding of their religious teachings. They have a wrong idea of freedom. They are mistaken about life because they are inflicting suffering on others and also on themselves. We need to be merciful and understanding to them. We hate them, the more violent they become. We need to bring transformation in them. And for this transformation we need to love them. But loving a terrorist is not easy! But why do we term them terrorist? Can we just look at them for the eyes of a simple person? If yes, then they are not terrorist but people who have got on to the wrong path of life as they always lived in darkness from the beginning. They are lost in this darkness on the wrong path of life and it’s our kind duty to enlighten the path and get them to know the bright path of life.
We need patience, Compassion and forgiveness to shower the beauty of love to create this new bright morning- the path of love.
So let’s move this want of love to create marvels.
Love finds its expression spontaneously. You don’t need to cultivate love in you, just realise you’re love and everything will happen on its own.
It’s like the mango, when ripe, its colour changes and you can spot it at distance. Similarly, Love will make you shine among the crowd and if the whole world realizes the love with them then the universe will shine like never before.
Being in utter love inspires. It brings confidence in applying knowledge. The visible sign of utter love is an undying smile.
When people realise the power of love they will be undisturbed, caring, persistent, and self shining.
So when we share love, we also grow. If we all continue to give love, we shall receive many much more back. This abundant love energy will create an atmosphere of positivity, caring, and sense of belonging. That time no one would be materialist or a self centred one, it would be the ideal world. Where one cares for the other, one helps the other, one prays for the other and in no time the OTHER vanishes and all what remains is “oneness”. This is the power of love. You gave away love and what you get in return is beyond words.
Jesus spoke about “caring love”
Islam talks about “Undying Love”
Buddhism speaks about “Affectionate Love”
Jainism teaches “Merciful Love”
All the religions propound Love.
Keep on giving Love, Love is a sheltering tree, the more you love it, the more it shall blossom in return.
Its time to GIVE LOVE.
-Pick up the phone and say affectionate words which you have been postponing
-Talk to your neighbour about their good deeds.
-Open the door to someone outside, waiting for our help.
- Asking forgiveness for our mistakes
- Conferring Benefits and then forgetting about them.
- Smile, to all as it brightens up the mood.
- Do something out of Love for your parents every now and then.
- Forgive and forget the mistakes of others
- Take care of the people around you.
- Complement someone whenever you feel like.
- Pray for the blessings of all.
- Take the decision which you have been procrastinating
- Be gentle and sweet to the rude.
- Be smiling to the wicked.
- And discover that you’re Love and Love is with in you.
Your very nature is love; you’re happiness, You’re Love.
When you discover Love, wherever you go the fragrance of love will spread far and wide.
Don’t worry! If no one can sense it, have patience and all will be attracted to this magical love. Love will transform the negative, wicked, rude and harsh.
This is because Love will awaken the love within them which they have past forgotten
So be open like the flower, spreading fragrance far and wide. Because if you don’t open, you shall fade away.
After all LOVE IS LIFE………………………..lets Give Love All From Our Heart.

Saturday, February 20, 2010

Valentines Day...........A feel good Film


Valentines Day was on Sunday this year, and I made it more special by going for the film Valentines Day, with one of my friend who didn't wanted to see the film for its bad reviews, but succumbed to my opinion.

Valentines Day directed by Garry Marshall, is yet another good film from the director of Pretty Woman and The Princess Diaries. The film is known for its huge starcast around 14 major stars, where Taylor Swift does her debut as a college girl.

Whats make this film special is its script and screenplay by Katharine Fugate. Its 14th Feb, Valentines Day, and whats in store for the seven major couple on this day, is the story of this film.

Jessica Alba is girl friend of Ashton Kutcher, who plays a florist and a firm believer in Valentines day. Whoever, his heart is broken when his girlfriend exits out from his life to pursue her career.
Jenniger Garner is a primary school teacher and is friend of Ashton Kutcher, Jennifer loves Patrick Dempsey, who is multi dating rather juggling, and is already married. Jennifer Is unaware of it and is brought to light by Ashton.
In the mean time Ashton discovers Love For Jennifer.
Bryce Robbinson, is Jennifers student in school, and has also ordered from florist Ashton to send flowers to his Valentine. Due to some reasons the flower never reaches soon, and the child is worried.
Emma Roberts is Bryce's Baby sitter, studying in High School and planning her first sexual encounter with ......... on this Valentine day.
There is an hilarous scene when ......... is spotted naked alone By Grace's mother.
Graces Friend Taylor Swift is a fairy tale kind girl, who has found new love Taylor Lautner, who both are blossoming in their love for each other.
Eric Dane is an extremely hot guy in this film and plays the character of a soccer play, and is on verge of ending his carrer. So he is in discussion with publicist Jessica Beil.
Jessica hates Valentine Day, since she is lonely, and whats making her more sad is that she has planned "I Hates Valentine Day" and with passing time, there is not a single guest.
Jammie Fox loves to cover Sports and is been sent to cover Valentines Day. Jammie Fox shares his opinion with Jessica about hating Valentines day.
Annie Hathaway is beautiful and hot too, playing the sassy role of a phone sex worker and is dating Toper Grace, who is the clerk in same office, but is unaware of Annies phone work.
Hector Elizondo and Sherley Maclaine are grandparents of Bryce Robbinson,and are deep love with each other even in their old age. Shirley shares her small story of an extra affair, with Hector.This affair had happened many years back.
Julia Roberts is the captain of U.S Army and right now is on a plane, travelling about for hours to meet her Valentine, just for one day. Sitting beside , is Bradley Cooper, who is friendly, hot and recently become single, since his love couldn't accept being in a relationship.

It might sound too much, but when you see Valentines Day , its a beautiful collage with the sweet song sung by Swift "Today was a Fairy Tale"

The Climax is Surprising and Perfect,


Julia's valentine is Brye Robbinson, her son for whom she travelled so far.
Emma Roberts and Crater, never have sex but leave it to happen on its own
Florsit Ashton and Jennifer realize love for each other.
Jessica is alone.
So is Patrick Hempsey, since his wife discovers about him as a jugller.
Taylor Swift and Taylor Lautner passionately kiss each other.
Annies Boyfriend, breaks the relation learning about her phone work but then being inspired by Shirley and Hector accepts her for the way she is.
Hector and Shirley portray classical love and hug each other at the cementary.
For Jessica's 'I hate Valentine's day' Party, there are finally many more guest, where she and Jammie Fox kiss each other.
And Finally, Eric Dane ends his career, by calling a press conference, and opens up to the press.When Bradley Copper lands from the flight he rushes to meet his love who has realized about relationships, who is no one else but Eric.

A feel good film and can watch again and again. Very well directed, wrapped up with so many love stories just in two hours.

Loneliness lets us Learn


Today I was chatting with one of my distant friend in Australia, we were school friends however never talked about life and all about it , when we were in school. Today, after five long years of being apart, we had a chat, all thanks to face book.
And finally there were questions pertaining to love, relationship, money, work and so called loneliness.
He says I'm lucky that loneliness haven't made me depressed. To put it honestly, Yes loneliness does make you depress for a certain time.That is the test for you,
to take you to a higher level of independence.
After being lonely for a longer time,
The unnecessary passions are thrown away,
Desires which need company are discarded. Like when its Saturday evening, one might feel like going for a play or party with someone. But when there is no company, one becomes sad, and when it happens repeatedly then may be depressed. However, one such Saturday comes, when you do something all by yourself just to be happy. Like going on a beach to see the sunset, Doing some work which is been postponed from a long time, like cleaning the desktop, arranging bookshelf, or even wardrobe. After some days, then you finally cook something special or go for a film, that you really want to see.
So you see, how loneliness lets you learn, so many things. Precisely, loneliness teaches you everything, and finally leaves you no more lonely.
This is my answer dear friend, who wonders how loneliness doesn't become depression.
From my point of view, loneliness is that factor which enables you to struggle, and gives you an opportunity to do everything by yourself, without depending on someone. It also lets you control your life and happiness.No one but only you, can make yourself happy.
Definitely Love is beautiful, but if it isn't present in your life, then it doesn't mean your life is ugly, rather it gives you a challenge to discover the love in you, then searching it in someone.
Also not to forget that loneliness is an important factor to do endless work with commitment and conviction.
Look around and you will see that people who have been lonely, may be strange but they are what they are, and have discovered their identity and creativity.
Look in past, Musicians, Theater artist,Historians, Anthropologist, Dancers, Teachers, Scientist, and Authors who have contributed in their respective fields of study, are often people who were lonely when it comes to relationships but were surrounded by an orchestra of their interest and creativity.

Today is another lonely Saturday, but actually not. Since I made it better by making Thai Noodles- a dish i never tried before.Would i have ever tried if i wasn't alone this evening?

Monday, February 15, 2010

VALENTINES DAY




We all know there's a beautiful story behind Valentine's Day. I'm sure most of us are even aware of it. And there are those who hate Valentines Day. Also there are couple or lovers who think what is so important about Valentines Day? Love can be shared any other day too.hmmmmm........ yeah that's true, you don't need to wait for valentines Day to ask someone out or speak for your love, or even propose someone. However, this day is special because of St Valentine.
Shakespeare said "whats in a name?" But 14th Feb, the day of love is been celebrated all over the world in the name of a saint.

Long ago, Valentine lived in Rome during the third century. Rome was ruled by Claudius.Emperor Claudius, was harsh and cruel, so people didn't like him at all.
Claudius wanted to have a big army. He expected men to volunteer to join. Many men just did not want to fight in wars. They did not want to leave their wives and families.Not many men were ready to join the army by then. This made Claudius furious.He thought of a mad idea, that if men were not married, they would not mind joining the army. So Claudius banned anymore marriages in town.People thought his new law was cruel and preposterous! St Valentine certainly wasn't going to support that law as he was a priest, and loved to get people married.
Even after Emperor Claudius passed his law,St Valentine kept on performing marriage ceremonies -- secretly, of course.
One night,St Valentine was caught. He was thrown in jail and told that his punishment was death.
He tried to stay cheerful and for his support many young people came to the jail to visit him. They threw flowers and notes up to his window.This was a simple act to prove that even people believed in Love, as much as him.
One of these young people was the daughter of the prison guard. Her father allowed her to visit St Valentine in the cell. Sometimes they would sit and talk for hours and soon blossomed a new friendship. When St Valentine was to die, he left for his friend a little note thanking for her friendship and loyalty. And signed it, "Love from your Valentine."
.It was written on the day he died, February 14, 269 A.D. Now, every year on this day, people remember about love and friendship. And when they think of Emperor Claudius, they remember how he tried to stand in the way of love, and they laugh -- because they know that love can't be beaten!

So now you know why 14th Feb, is so special.Valentines Day gives people a chance to speak their feelings out, if they have been shy or scared. There is a different energy in the air on this day, especially love is in the air. I'm not of the opinion that only share your love and concern on this day. Try to make each day, each moment special for your loved one's, but also not to forget 14th Feb on your list.

Also for those who are single, this day has lot for you rather then feeling lonely. Love doesn't mean just a couple, its not just a feeling. But you're Love. You're full of love and purity. So make yourself happy. After all, there is no one who will know you so better as you know yourself.
Also, if you're single, then go out with a friend who is single too, and make moments memorable.Eventually, its St Valentine's friendship farewell note, which turned into Valentines Day.

"LOVE ALL" 'Its beautiful'

(the pic's reveal how I made my room messy to create gifts for special people)

political power Vs Movie Magic




"My name is Khan" by Karan Johar, had been blown out of proportion by Politicians or certain religious groups for no rhyme or reason. When the Shivsena were out with their usual violent protest for the film before and after its release, at the same time there were cine lovers who were waiting desperately for the film.
People are yet unsure, so is the media as why is the film not to be released? Is it the title that's wrong? Or is the interview of Shahrukh, where no one is yet aware what did he actually say? Or was there a misprint in the interview article?
Whatever it may be, but why the opposition had to take such a strong stand for stopping the film from it's release? I guess these people had no work or anything destructive to do, which could cater the public attention.Also they may be paid for doing such nuisances, backed up by a political party.
I firmly believe that when the film is been passed by the censor board, then no one has the right to ban the film. Has these political organizations taken the job of censor board? Its very simple, those who are against any film, will not watch it and those who are eager about the film , will spend and watch the film. So its the audience choice and no one else job.
If these political organizations are so serious about the effects and title of such film, on the citizens of India. Aren't they bothered about the difficulties that people have to face due to their violent (immature) attacks, like stone pedaling.
Definitely, the government has to take a strong action. And this time I seen it myself. Great thanks to our Hon Chief minister Ashok Chavan for the amount of security he provided to this film. I could seen it myself, whenever I was traveling in the city one week before the release. All theatres where the movie was suppose to release had a van of cops. Not for an hour or two, but whole day and night along.
But what was much sad to me is that, when finally the film released it was only in handful theatres of Mumbai. The PVR Chain, acted like a loser and didn't release it. Big Pictures were initially scared too. single screens wanted to be on safer side. And what turned out to be the courageous was Inox, Fun Republic and Cinemax chain.
I wasn't so eager about this film, but when I switched on the news channel and seen the immaturity of these political parties, also the fear of theatre owners. I decided, I'm going to watch it, and now itself. Not out of curiosity but out of support for the meaningful cinema, and ofcourse coming for Karan Johar, it will be remarkable.
I went to PVR, on my friends suggestion (i knew PVR wont release it) and was disappointed, while leaving home, I had heard Cinemax chains have opened the bookings. so I went to Cinemax- sion and was happy to have the tickets in my hand.
The security was tight, and great.
My name is Khan review I can say it, in two line that
"we shall overcome one day"
"There are no religious differences among people. People are only of two kinds Good and Bad"
Sharukh and Dialogues are the best part of the film.
Next day, the film was in all theatres, as magic of movie worked over political power.
Also not to forget, India is a country, which I believe breathes on two most important religions, that's Films and Cricket.
So don't mess with Cricket or Films, you know where the majority is.
If still I feel sad for something, then I wish the Government had taken such a strong stand when Deepa Mehta's WATER had to face severe opposition from certain political parties and the film's shooting had to be stopped in Benaras. But the lady never gave up and rescheduled it to shoot in Sri Lanka. The film became an Oscar nomination from Canada, and when Indians realized it's International fame, it was released in India. Hippocrates!
Also Deep Mehta's "Fire" had to face severe opposition, after it's release in India.
I wish Government had been more strong at that time. Also being art films, the people often stay away from it.
'My name is Khan' come's from Karan Johar, that's why the government took such a pin for it. If it would have been any art film, I guess the government wouldn't have shown so much interest also.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Looks are Deceptive


We are often attracted to people who are good looking. Though from distance they seem more lively........ as closer we go we realize how hollow they are.
This isn't necessarily true. But often its the looks- what we see cheats us. People who are often smart looking turn out to be dumb and people who are intelligent are often not attractive. How strange!!!!!!!!!

But does that confuses us, and makes it difficult to choose, either of it. Then the answer is very simple. The core reality within is always true and lasting. Like the heart- its emotions and feelings are anytime better then a good looking person.The beauty is an accident of nature which will fade with time, yet the person heart from tough wont become soft. However, a sweet person will always remain sweet,the heart will remain the same and relation will survive longer.
So its the person inside that matters not what lies outside.

The best example of this is my cake. My friend baked a cake with hard efforts, however it didn't turn out to be sweet, fluffy and spongy. In short, it seemed like a dry cake. So she gave it to me for making rum balls. For me to spoil a cake for making Rum balls didn't fit into my mind. So thought of making it sweet by cutting it from within adding melted chocolate in it as well as over it. Then i decorated it with some strawberries, i had at home and placed it on a beautiful table top.

All i did was just gave a presentable look to the cake. What do you think, did the cake tasted better after that. Yes, the cake did taste better with so much of chocolate.However, it didn't taste like a cake. One could easily say that, when one took a bite realizing that something was missing and obviously it wasn't spongy.

Moral of this Cake - Beauty can be added too, but the person inside still remains the same.look for the inner side of person and with time even looks will become good because of the greatness of heart.

Monday, February 1, 2010

No-one can make you feel you inferior without your consent


"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent" says Eleanor Roosevelt.

Its definitely true and cent percent correct. We often feel sad when someone talks bad about us, we often keep quiet when we see hundred fingers pointing towards us, it makes us feel inferior, When some one passes a stupid comment on us, we keep thinking about it until we lose the smile on our face.

Why is it so? Why should some one else thoughts, remarks rather envious attitude bother you. The world is small, though it looks to be big. May be your thoughts and pattern of living does no fit into the small and narrow minded people, but does that stop you from going ahead with your thoughts and stop being what you are?
Small people are those who have minds but use it for small reasons and never think of being big. Such people never themselves have done anything in their life and can never do anything. But they cant see other's trying to reach the sky, so they will make all attempts to pull you down by disturbing your focused mind and giving you unnecessary pain.
However, one should not forget that these worthless burden in the name of man, has no control over you. If you don't let these other people's thoughts bother you, you will not be disturbed. If you don't bother over their comments, you automatically will restore your calm mind.
So no one can make you fell sad or inferior without your permission. When you let these cheap people get into your mind, then the equation becomes unstable. So no one can insult you unless you let them do so, and you become insulted.
Do what you feel in your heart to be right, do what your conscience tell's you. People will talk even if you do it this way or that way. Because this is what small minds do, total gossip.And if you start thinking what people would think, then you will never live uniquely and will be damned.
So go by your heart.
I have spent most time in opposition, but I like what i do, and the role i play. So is happy for that. Rather then sitting idle like others, and discussing about others lives.
"Don't get pushed by the force of people running in one direction, that they are unaware of. Take the courage and go confidently resisting this negative force to the goal where you want to be"

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Paranormal Society






We call ourselves human and are living into groups so that we can be together, help and serve each other. So we have formed this Society and called ourselves Civilized.
There are many norms and rules made by so called 'Society', which underneath the sheet of communal betterment has led many lives to crush their identity into nothing less then non-living objects.
Here are few of the instances;

JOGTA/I- who Serve the god suffering their lives..
Jogta or a jogtini. They are forced by the society to give up everything and serve God. A jogta has to give up the fact of being a man and suppress all his desires. A jogtini is expected to give up herself, she cannot get married, have children or have a life of her own.A jogta is a man once chosen is stripped of his masculinity and has to dress and accessorize himself as a woman, let alone giving up on his physical needs and has no choice. If the jogta revolts, he is stripped of his masculinity physically.
This tradition was followed in the rural areas in the ancient times and like any tradition was flexible enough for those in power to misuse it as Jogtas and jogtis are treated as sex slaves and viewed with a mixture of semi-respect and disdain. It is known to be still followed in some villages in Karnataka, to please goddess Yellamma.

DOLPHIN HUNTING TO PROVE MASCULINITY.
. A total of 13,080 cetaceans were killed throughout Japan in 2007
very year, in Denmark, specifically the Faroe Islands, innocent and helpless Calderon Dolphins are slaughtered brutally by the Danes. Why you may ask, and the stupid answer is that its a ridiculous right of passage to manhood.
What points is there in killing another living being just to prove you have "evolved", you have transcended. There is simply no need.
This poor dolphins are stabbed a number of times, but as if that weren't enough, they bleed to death, probably in excruciating pain while the whole town watches.
Its so brutal that the coast line turns red with the blood.
Needles to say, that killing a defenseless animal is no prove of anybody's manhood.
Schools are also given holiday to watch out the hunting's, followed by celebration.

DEVDASI- worship the God being sex objects of men.
Devadasi originally described a Hindu religious practice in which girls were "married" and dedicated to a deity. In addition to taking care of the temple and performing rituals, they learned and practiced Bharatanatyam and other classical Indian arts traditions and enjoyed a high social status.

Following the demise of the great Hindu kingdoms the practice degenerated. Pressure from the British colonial reform movement led to suppression of the practice. Adherents of this movement considered devadasis immoral since they engaged in sex outside of the traditional concept of marriage, and described them as prostitutes.Since devdasis were left to God and temples, the high priest started exploiting them and women feared them. Also slowly people stated looking them with disgrace eventually forcing them into physical sex. As these Devadasis had no one to complain and grieve to, in this dreadful jungle called society, they left everything to fate by turning into prostitutes.
Though, Sati Act was passed in 1934, it is still been practiced under the black sky of this dark society.

WIDOW -endowed with burden
Widow is a woman whose spouse has died. But in India, widowhood isn't so simple.
Once the husband dies, it seems as if the life of woman has died.Though she is sad and lonely, the society will now look upon her with a lustful eye.
Though widow remarriage is legal, the act was passed in India after a long struggle in 1856.However, widows are considered unlucky in the traditional society. Widows face challenges of child support, finance, social stigma, security and remarriage.
Men will always look upon a widow, to someone who has no security and is helpless.
to society the life of a widow is meaningless. We may live in urban cities, but India is yet rural at its heart bound in such traditions.

WITCH HUNTING -beastly avatar of man

Many people might be unaware of this term, but if you are then its very sad, that we are still unintelligent or rather never made aware of such issue. Witch Hunting is a practised belived to be common in Europe in the 19th Century, where a woman doubted on a insane thought to be practicing sorcery, magic and having connections with Satan is killed brutally.
Witch Hunt is a barbarous practice, though sounds unbelievable yet is a part of rural India, where media never reaches and no wonder to note that the Government is snoring loud and busy sleeping .
But the crux is that for a man to label any woman a witch is very simple on meaningless grounds. in order to settle scores or even to punish her for turning down sexual advances. Cases have also come up where a strong-willed woman is targeted because she is assertive and is seen as a threat.
Most often rich lonely woman are targeted, so that their property and riches can be taken over.
In a majority of the cases, it is difficult for the accused woman to reach out for help and she is forced to either abandon her home and family, commit suicide or is brutally murdered.

The most recent publicized case in India spread international uproar was in October 2009 when five Muslim women were paraded naked, beaten and forced to eat human excrement by villagers after being branded as witches in India's Jharkhand state. The incident was only made public after a cellphone video surfaced of the event. Many national research agencies contend events such as these happen daily around the world, without any reports to the police out of fear of retribution.
We do live in barbaric times!

EUNUCH'S -Existing But not Living

Often people laugh at them, think of them to be weird creatures. All because we have been brought up in such a traditional closed society. Eunuch is a hermaphrodite or a person who basically looks like a half woman yet posses man sexual organs as well female.When they are born, they may be termed male or female. It's a creation of God, then how does the Society decides about being male or female. The universe, nature everything is filled with differences and unique in themselves. Eunuch are such like us. But are kept away from society and treated with disrespect.Once upon a time they were treated with respect and dignity in the Ramayana. Eunuchs were frequently employed in Imperial Indian palaces as servants for female royalty, and often attained high-status positions in Indian society in Muslim community and served the queens. But today they are begging on the streets,the government has no option for eunuch as a gender, and they have remained where they are because no one educated them. So has the Society evolved or rather Deteriorated?



A heart wrenching incidents exposes the hypocrisies and exploitations of an oppressed society harrowed by archaic traditions and plagued by superstitions in our society. Can we call this Society evolved, civilized,progressed? It isn't anyone to blame. But to blame those rich's and high class people who manipulated the religious text according to their benefit. Traditions are made and not come from the divine. We fail to recognize Traditions as man-made and consider them divine or religious. And why educated people like us are also quiet? Education should liberate one from bondage, this is because no one thinks of this issues seriously only because they are not a part of it, but not to forget you live in a society which you're a part of, and so are all these issues and hundred other false traditions.
Traditions Causes bondage,Religion binds, but Spirituality liberates.

"How can we call one a human, if it lack's humanity"


Share, Care and Spread Awareness

Don't look for Good..............Create Good


When things are going wrong, when relation aren't working, when times are sad, and then everything seems ruined. All what we wonder is "why me" why are there so many problems in my life? Why is the world so bad? and we feel bad about ourselves and everything around. You might curse others, blame yourself,.......... and then drive in to the darkness of dead-past.
So wherever you see, you find misery, broken images,death and unhappiness. You question about God's presence?.............. and is left with no answer.
But the secret is that the truth lies within you. This mind, body and soul is an instrument to serve the godhood.
Don't try to look for good, Don't search happiness, because it isn't an object hidden in the chest rather a state of mind.
Don't look for good, but create good. Create good by listening to a lonely, sharing with someone helpless, talking to someone who needs hope,by helping a needy,spreading goodwill and making relations work out for betterment.
Go around, spread goodwill, share a smile and create something good, so that Goodness brings Happiness.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

LOVE AND SACRIFICE


When it comes to Love................. there are other elements which follow it. These are compromises, Sacrifices, Adjustment, to keep the relationship alive. Two people are never the same in their thought patterns, nor in their behaviour. But when a problem arises, how do they solve it.
Love....... isn't so easy, it test you time and time again to realize it's worth and wonder if one deserves it.
Today in these complicated relationships, one even finds it difficult to answer his/her relationship status.
Whether they are attracted to some one, or they like someone, or may be they are in love, or many be they have just realized their differences, or may be there are misunderstandings, or may be they just want to mutually apart, Or is it that the 'Ex' is back in life again, may be they are double dating, what if its multi-dating?
Such a Confusion!!!!!!!
However, in a relationship 'who is the one who makes most sacrifice?' Most often we believe it's the girl who makes most adjustments but after marriage the boy sacrifices most, being a hubby.
Love and the sacrifices can never be judged on gender basis, Because love is universal in itself.
However, in this present era, Love is nothing more then a need or want to escape from Loneliness. Love is selfless, but now its selfish.
And when people are so selfish, who will sacrifice then?
Some time back, when relationships and Love wasn't so open and publicized. People were happy with their love not because they got what they aspired for but they accepted their love with full grace and made it their love of life, by being selfless. Even if a sacrifice was made by anyone of the partner it was made out of love for love, so in no way seemed like a sacrifice.Love wasn't a market place that time, which is today when it comes to streets of cosmopolitan cities.
But today, when it comes to adjustment........... may be the girl will do a few or the guy...... but after a point they wonder why do I need to always 'Compromise?'
This is the 'Point of EDGES'..........
Soon after things fall apart, lovers fight, then ignore each other and finally they stop communicating leaving love halfway at an unknown directionless path.
One has to make compromise as well adjust to make the relationships cart move swiftly, but it isn't about one wheel, its both of the wheels that makes the cart runs. Similarly, how long can only one adjust even the other has to help, compromise and adjust out of Love for Love.

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Wake Up Sid.........a new treatment,well written, and fine actors.


It was the film i never wanted to watch, but finally after the fil was a month old i seen it. As I thought, it would be the same old boring story where a a rich dad's son is lazy and living life lavishly but meaninglessly, until a girl comes (Konkana Sen) who shows him the true side of life and transform his thoughts. But I was wrong, and the film turned out to be loosely based on what I said but with a whole new treatment that changed the story of film. wake Up Sid, is a family story where a good for nothing son leave's home to find his identity. Konkana shares her flat with him.Konkana has a crush on her boss, as she wants someone honest, well mannered, gentleman, intelligent and most importantly independent.
Eventually, however, Sid's bad habits revive themselves as he leaves her place a mess and makes the kind of demands on her that he is used to making on everyone. When she finds he has not eaten all day, Konkana is amused by the fact that Sid cannot cook and does not know how to feed himself. Over time however, Sid learns that to survive in the world he has to begin cooking and cleaning. He has also realized he must work and Konkana helps him become a photography intern at the magazine she works for.
The film shows the emotions of the mother and Sid, in such circumstances. In mean time, Konkana realises that her boss isn't what she is looking for. Finally, afterwards Dad calls Sid home, when Konkana actually discovers love for Sid. But she doesn't say anything as he is going back to his home.The departure is hostile. Then konkana writes an article 'New girl in Mumbai' where she pen downs her feelings about life and Sid. That latest issue is read by Sid, and runs to meet her.
The film is about their growing friendship, only the hostile departure makes them realize that the friendship had grown into Love.

WHATS YOUR RASHEE.........Engaging,thoughtful,serene n vivacious over all perfectly entetaining Rom-com



I was desperately waiting for this film, as was eager to see Priyanka playing 12 different roles and most importantly, it being a film by Asutosh Gowariker.
So it was a first day, first show @ Globus. The film had an amazing start of Priyanka displaying the Twelve Zodiac signs.The film became interesting with each different character of Priyanka, and in no way they were similar.Harman suited the character well, no wonder he was chosen by the Artistic vision of Ashutosh. Though the film is about 3 hours and 2o mins, it doesn't seem so long.Whats your Rashee? keeps you engaged throughout the film with its characters, and many but beautiful short songs. There is nothing superstitious about the film, infact it is just the mindset of the actor and people. Ashutosh as always has touched social issues in his movies and kept his mark here too. Where the film deals with certain issues like dowry and Child marriage. The characters that i loved the most were Hansa- the cancerian, a graduate in English Literature, who still isn't been able to cope up with her past, since been ditched by her neighbour whom she loved the most.
And Pooja- truly a Virgo like me, who are Romantic, Career oriented yet live all their life listening to their heart. Emotions and relations are her priority.
Though the film did not do well, nor Indian critics appreciated it, I guess it was just a propaganda to put the film down. Infact, it was the closing film for 'Toronto film Festival' and got a standing Applause.

Little Zizou............funfilled,dynamic,weird but smart.


Another great film from Mirabai Productions is Sooni Taraporewala's LITTLE ZIZOU.
This film peeps into the lives of the conservative Parsee community, dealing with two families.Little Zizou is a fast-paced, exuberant, yet poignant comedy about how two battling Mumbai families finally come to terms. 'Little Zizou' is an eleven year old soccer-mad Parsi boy whose fervent wish is that his idol, French soccer player Zinedine Zidane visit Mumbai. His older brother Ataxerxes, is a talented artist whose wild fantasies come to life in surprising ways and wants to make a Supersonic Plne. Their father Khodaiji is a self-proclaimed protector-of-the-faith.
Ataxarxes burns with unrequited love for the daughter of Khodaiji's arch rival, Pressvala, a free thinking newspaper publisher. And to the extreme displeasure of their other daughter, Xerxes and Zizou adores the maternal Mrs Pressvala. But the real fireworks begin when Pressvala writes a scathing critique of Khodaiji and public reaction is widespread. As the two households fight, life becomes difficult.

THREE IDIOTS.....Sensitive,powerful dialogues,great perfomances, and well scripted



A very well directed film by Rajkumar Hirani,which could be seen by the masses and even send a meaningful message. Since its based on the Educational Pattern, students could well connect with it. Some Scenes are very sensitive, like the one when Joe Lobo- an intelligent student commits suicide by the mental pressure and discouraging words.And its the best scene too.Also the 'Baby Delivery' scene is fantastically shot, with keeping the audience on edge of their seats. Aamir Khan, no wonder gives his best performance again, being a bit old yet does justice to this college student character. Sharman and Madhvan also have done a commendable job. And 'Virus' played by Booman Irani will surely bring him many awards this year. The songs touch your heart, by its lyrics. Especially "Give me some sunshine". This film is definitely going to build up a positive attitude towards life in people's mind and make the path clearer towards their Goal.

JAIL............bold and courageous


Again a great film from the master of realistic cinema Madhur Bhandarkar. An innocent guy lands up in Jail for Drug case, and finds no escape from the deteriorating life of Jail. The film's narration is done excellently by Manoj Bajpayee, who has seen many people coming in jail and been changed into much more worse than what they were. However, He see's Neil's (victims) eye and finds him innocent. After a long struggle of pain, hardship, strange people, fights, loneliness, Neil tries to build a relationship with the Jail rather the Jail binds people into a relation. Mughda Godse plays a completely de-glamorous role of an air hostess and his girlfriend, who is all courageously making attempts with the law and court to save him.But until the end all attempts are futile, when the entry of new lawyer 'Atul Kulkarni' changes the course of the film where the audience feels relieved. Since in the whole film Neil is been tortured with third degree, Stripped Naked, and much more violent scenes. The film could have been much more realistic and a trend setting one if the censor board hadn't deleted it's six scenes.
This film gives you an insight about the real happenings of a Jail, and law procedures.