"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent" says Eleanor Roosevelt.
Its definitely true and cent percent correct. We often feel sad when someone talks bad about us, we often keep quiet when we see hundred fingers pointing towards us, it makes us feel inferior, When some one passes a stupid comment on us, we keep thinking about it until we lose the smile on our face.
Why is it so? Why should some one else thoughts, remarks rather envious attitude bother you. The world is small, though it looks to be big. May be your thoughts and pattern of living does no fit into the small and narrow minded people, but does that stop you from going ahead with your thoughts and stop being what you are?
Small people are those who have minds but use it for small reasons and never think of being big. Such people never themselves have done anything in their life and can never do anything. But they cant see other's trying to reach the sky, so they will make all attempts to pull you down by disturbing your focused mind and giving you unnecessary pain.
However, one should not forget that these worthless burden in the name of man, has no control over you. If you don't let these other people's thoughts bother you, you will not be disturbed. If you don't bother over their comments, you automatically will restore your calm mind.
So no one can make you fell sad or inferior without your permission. When you let these cheap people get into your mind, then the equation becomes unstable. So no one can insult you unless you let them do so, and you become insulted.
Do what you feel in your heart to be right, do what your conscience tell's you. People will talk even if you do it this way or that way. Because this is what small minds do, total gossip.And if you start thinking what people would think, then you will never live uniquely and will be damned.
So go by your heart.
I have spent most time in opposition, but I like what i do, and the role i play. So is happy for that. Rather then sitting idle like others, and discussing about others lives.
"Don't get pushed by the force of people running in one direction, that they are unaware of. Take the courage and go confidently resisting this negative force to the goal where you want to be"
You said it !!
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